OpenCupid is a free, open matchmaking platform for existing communities. Help members find friendships, collaborations, and partnerships — in a safe, respectful space your community controls.
Within every circle — whether that's a collective, association, ecovillage, or shared-interest group — there are valuable connections that haven't been made yet. Members are often scattered, and existing platforms aren't built for this kind of discovery.
OpenCupid helps surface these connections in a safe and intentional way, helping people connect — whether for friendship, collaboration, or romantic partnership — within the circles they already belong to.
A self-hosted matchmaking platform — no subscriptions, no upsells, no hidden costs.
Members create profiles and discover others based on shared interests, values, and mutual preferences. Connections happen on both sides' terms.
Real-time chat and voice calls built in. Once you've matched, communicate naturally without switching to another app.
A community bulletin board where members can post updates, announcements, and requests — keeping everyone in the loop.
See where community members are located on an interactive map. Great for finding nearby people or planning meetups.
Keep members engaged with timely notifications for new matches, messages, and community activity.
Built with internationalization from day one. Currently available in English and Hungarian, with more languages coming from the community.
OpenCupid has no dark patterns, no data exploitation, and no manipulative design. A transparent tool that puts your community first.
You only see details others choose to share if you've shared the same information yourself, and only when your preferences match theirs.
Nobody can contact you unless you've given permission. Connections happen on mutual terms.
No hidden algorithms trying to keep you hooked, no upsells, and no data exploitation. Transparent and honest by design.
Self-host on your own infrastructure. Your community's data stays with your community — never sold, never shared.
OpenCupid is free and open source. Deploy it for your group, contribute code, translate it into your language, or simply help test the platform.
Ways to contribute
